Who Needs Sleep?

Who Needs Sleep?

If it’s 3 a.m. there's a good chance I'm wide awake.  I'm either up because I have to pee, my dogs are barking at some imagined threat (THE WIND IS GOING TO KILL US ALL!) or my brain is trying to process 3,167,414 thoughts at once.  Usually, it's the brain thing. That is, after all, [...]

Anxiety Over What Words To Use To Describe My Anxiety

Anxiety Over What Words To Use To Describe My Anxiety

(Originally published in “Reno Tahoe Tonight” magazine – October 2017) Words have power.  One of my favorite quotes is from Hogwarts Headmaster Albus Dumbledore (by way of J.K. Rowling) and it goes:  “Words are, in my not-so-humble opinion, our most inexhaustible source of magic, capable of both inflicting injury, and remedying it." Words we use [...]

Daughter Fodder

Daughter Fodder

(Originally published in "Reno Tahoe Tonight" Magazine) I love being a dad.  It’s one of the few things at which I’m good.  Maybe good is too strong a word.  Let’s go with adequate.  Marginally adequate.  Occasionally.  My daughter is 17 years old.  She’s an A student, she wants to be a cop, and she’s cute [...]

Don’t Let Your Depression Do The Talking

Don’t Let Your Depression Do The Talking

(This article was originally published at themighty.com) “That’s your depression talking…” My therapist says this to me fairly often. It’s one of the most basic traits of having depression. It speaks for you, about you and to you. It’s not an advocate. It never tells you, “Hey, great decision!” or “You got this!” Sometimes, it [...]

Do Your Own Eulogy

Do Your Own Eulogy

(Originally Published in Reno-Tahoe Tonight Magazine) My friend David is 76 years old. When we had lunch last week he asked me for a favor. He asked if I would do his eulogy. “Like, right now?” I asked. “No...." he said  "Lemme finish my soup” He’s a comedian. But he was serious about the eulogy. [...]